The Alabaster Jar


She knew she was a sinner 
As she came to Him that day 
Broken and rejected, 
Guilty and ashamed 
As she humbly fell before Him 
Her sorrow and her fears 
Fell down upon the Master's feet 
As she bathed them with her tears 

She saw their disapproval 
And she felt their angry stares 
As she touched the feet of Jesus 
And dried them with her hair 
Their contempt was spoken loudly 
Her desire, a silent plea 
As she wept in her repentance 
The Saviour saw her need 

She broke the alabaster 
The fragance filled that place 
To her, an act of worship 
To them, a shameful waste 
But as she kissed the feet of Mercy 
Her heart was filled with faith 
As she anointed Him with fragrant oil 
His heart was filled with Grace 

Her many sins forgiven 
She loved Him much indeed 
She heard His words of blessing saying 
"Go and live in peace" 
Forever she'd remember 
The Man who took her shame 
And carried it to Calvary 
So she would live again! 

YOU ARE NOT YOUR MENTAL ILLNESS

 I'm definitely going to get into trouble for this one...but I can't not say it.

๐™”๐™Š๐™ ๐˜ผ๐™๐™€ ๐™‰๐™Š๐™ ๐™”๐™Š๐™๐™ ๐™ˆ๐™€๐™‰๐™๐˜ผ๐™‡ ๐™„๐™‡๐™‡๐™‰๐™€๐™Ž๐™Ž

We tell people with mental disorders all the time ‘๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘›๐‘œ๐‘ก ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ ๐‘š๐‘’๐‘›๐‘ก๐‘Ž๐‘™ ๐‘–๐‘™๐‘™๐‘›๐‘’๐‘ ๐‘ ’. We tell them this to enable them to accept treatment and to help them to see that they are, in fact, suffering from an illness.

We spend a fortune on mental health services and counselling to help people to separate their perception of reality from actual reality. We have psychiatric services, hospitals, clinics, and doctors all dedicated to helping people to bring their thoughts in line with reality.

There are many examples of how we do this. I’ll list a few in ๐’—๐’†๐’“๐’š basic terms:
• We tell people with anorexia they are not fat.
• We tell people with schizophrenia that there is nobody whispering into their brain.
• We tell those with OCD that nothing bad will happen if you don’t flick the light switch 4 times.
• We tell those with depression that life will get better for them.
• We tell those who are suicidal that we wouldn’t be better off without them.
• We tell those with PTSD that the situation is in the past and is not happening right now.
• We tell those with illusions that what they see/perceive is not real…

There are, of course, many more examples of how mental illness is treated by trying to align the patient’s thoughts with their surrounding reality.

However, there is one notable exception that is becoming more and more difficult to ignore…

๐—š๐—˜๐—ก๐——๐—˜๐—ฅ ๐——๐—ฌ๐—ฆ๐—ฃ๐—›๐—ข๐—ฅ๐—œ๐—”

I am not trying to pretend that I am an expert, I cannot imagine the mental anguish of people who suffer from gender dysphoria and I genuinely sympathise with their plight.

However, from my point of view, this is the one area where the entire medical establishment seems to have broken from the mantra ‘๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด.’
With the issue of a person feeling like they are in the ‘wrong body’, there is becoming less of an effort to align that person’s feelings with reality.

The reality is that they are either male or female. That is a biological reality (with the exception of the miniscule number of physically intersex people). When a person ‘feels’ they are in the body of the wrong sex, there is an obvious break from reality. This used to be fully accepted by doctors and lay people alike.

What changed? What happened that those same doctors will now join in the delusion that a person can be born in the body of the wrong gender?

Far from saying ‘๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘›๐‘œ๐‘ก ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ ๐‘š๐‘’๐‘›๐‘ก๐‘Ž๐‘™ ๐‘–๐‘™๐‘™๐‘›๐‘’๐‘ ๐‘ ’; many are now saying ‘๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“ ๐’‘๐’†๐’“๐’„๐’†๐’‘๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’๐’” ๐’‚๐’“๐’† ๐’„๐’๐’“๐’“๐’†๐’„๐’• ๐’†๐’—๐’†๐’ ๐’˜๐’‰๐’†๐’“๐’† ๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’š ๐’…๐’Š๐’—๐’†๐’“๐’ˆ๐’† ๐’‡๐’“๐’๐’Ž ๐’๐’ƒ๐’”๐’†๐’“๐’—๐’‚๐’ƒ๐’๐’† ๐’“๐’†๐’‚๐’๐’Š๐’•๐’š.’

Bแดœแด› แดษดสŸส ษชษด แด›สœษชs แดษดแด‡ แด€ส€แด‡แด€.

And not only that. Now the doctors, politicians, activists etc are trying to make it mandatory that we all enter into the delusion too. Now I must suspend my actual, tangible, observable reality (on pain of imprisonment in some countries) so that the gender dysmorphic person is made comfortable in their delusion.

Surely there is something wrong with that?

Or are we now supposed to tell people with schizophrenia that the tv is actually sending them messages, or tell the person with an eating disorder that they are fat and ugly etc??

If not, why not?

Where does it end?

It's Time to Behold!

 

 

Behold what manner of love the Father has bestowed on us, that we should be called children of God!

I have been meditating over this verse for a while. It blesses my heart no end! My girls used to listen to Psalty in the car and this was one of my favourite songs.

Let’s take it apart to see the fullness of this encouragement. I love this.

Behold!

Look at this, marvel at it, wonder at it, contemplate it…it is a thing worthy of stopping and considering. What are we told to behold?

What manner of Love!

What kind of love does God have for us? All encompassing, never-ending, sacrificial, secure, one-sided, unconditional... Human love is conditional, but God’s love is not. It does not depend on my goodness, thankfully.

God’s love is not based on our personalities, our actions, our promises etc… That is not to say that God doesn’t love us, but He loves because He chooses to, not because we are lovely. We, of ourselves, did nothing to attract the love of God.

That thought might sound harsh, but it really isn’t! I think there is wonderful liberty in that thought because it means that we can also do nothing to lose God’s love. It’s not earned, so that we could lose it if we don’t keep up the thing that attracted His love. No, it is freely given because God is love!

‘And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.’ Romans 8:38-39

We have security that God’s love is unchanging and independent of us. We cannot lose God’s love. How wonderful!!

The Father has bestowed on us:

God is the Father and as a father he has given his love.

What is a father’s love? Many don’t know the love of an earthly father, but God is the Father against whose love we can measure all earthly love. 

He has given it to us through the death of Jesus on the cross who died for us while we were still sinners, far from Him.

He has given it to us in the resurrection, by accepting Jesus’ sacrifice for us, he guarantees the acceptability and sufficiency of that sacrifice.

He has given His love in the indwelling of the Holy Spirit to empower us, enable us, strengthen us, and seal us for eternity.

He has given it to us in the church, the Body of Christ. We are set within a family, both local and global, for love, support, fellowship and shaping.

That we should be called the children of God.

AND WE ARE!

We are His children. We belong to Him and have been adopted into His family. We were all without a true father until we came to the Father.

John 1: ‘But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God…’  We are no longer slaves, or even servants; we are His children. We are co-heirs with Christ Jesus and we belong at the Master’s table. We have been plucked from obscurity and sure destruction and given a place in the King’s inner court. Why? Because He loves us, chose us, and saved us unto Himself. Amazing!

Back to ‘behold…’

Think about this truth. You know yourself; you know what you’ve done, thought, said, and how far you’ve fallen from God’s standard of perfection. We know, if we’re honest, that we deserve death and judgement, but God did not give that to us. Instead, He had mercy on us and has given us beauty for our ashes. He poured out His grace and mercy upon us when we least deserved it.

This is what we need to behold. We should never become complacent and forget to behold. God has saved us from hell, saved us for eternity, strengthened us by His Holy Spirit and made us holy as He is holy! WOW!

Think about that. Does that not make your heart sing? Does that not fill you with gratitude and love? Does that not spur you on to want to live a life worthy of the amazing love that God has poured out upon us?

Be blessed as you behold!

Are You Tired of the Race?

 

In Jeremiah chapter 12, Jeremiah is complaining to the Lord about the hardship of the times he is living in. Things are not easy for him; he is facing challenges that he doesn’t know how to deal with, and it is irritating him. He asks the Lord how long these challenges will continue.

Now, in the times we live in, this ‘Covid Era’, we too can complain about all that is happening around us. I know I have done this too… “Lord, they are taking away our freedoms, taking away our ability to gather for worship, declaring church non-essential…and I’m tired of it. How long will this continue?”

How does God answer Jeremiah…and me?

In fact, He doesn’t answer the complaint, He refocuses both Jeremiah’s and my perspective in this verse:

“If racing against mere men makes you tiredhow will you race against horses?

If you stumble and fall on open ground, what will you do in the thickets near the Jordan?

 

Is the state of the world causing you to stumble in your faith? Are the regulations and lockdowns causing you to question the presence or power of God? Are you drifting aimlessly from week to week, not engaging with church meetings, prayer times, bible reading?

I believe the Lord is asking us: If this battle makes you tired, when you are in relative safety and freedom with no real physical threat or fear of persecution, how will you cope with what is coming down the line?

I’m not saying that it isn’t a difficult time and I recognise that we are facing challenges, but what if this is ‘racing against mere men’ and we can expect there to be a ‘race against horses’ in the future.

Jeremiah was finding it hard where he was but there were much more difficult times ahead in his future. He was struggling in Anathoth but he had no idea that he would be put into stocks, into a cistern, and imprisoned later on in Jerusalem, Babylon and Egypt.

James tells us to thank God for the hard times in our lives because we know that they have a deeper purpose. Dear brothers and sisters, when troubles of any kind come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy.  For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow. So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be perfect and complete, needing nothing.James 1:2-4

What if God is preparing us for the times to come when we will have to face horses? What if we need to run against mere men to push us to trust in the Lord in a deeper way?

God will never ask us to contend with horsemen until he has trained us in contending with footmen. (Morgan) What if the patience and endurance James wrote about is being developed in us now, so we can face the horses and thickets of Jordan down the line?

The reality is that there is worse coming; the Bible doesn’t hide that from us. In the end times there will be a persecution like we’ve never seen. The world will become an even more wicked place. There will be a great falling away from the church and the faith. Who knows if, like Jeremiah, we will be imprisoned or worse for our faith in Jesus? But if the challenges we are facing now cause us to walk away from our faith, how will we hope to survive in the days to come when things will be a lot worse than they are now?

I keep thinking about this and I hear a quiet voice saying:

  • ·        Read your bible because there may come a time when owning and reading one will be illegal;
  • ·        Learn bible verses by heart because there may be a day when you need to speak them back to yourself and you have no bible to hand;
  • ·        Pray with the Body of Christ because there may come a time when you will be forbidden from praying out loud;
  • ·        Worship with your family in Christ because there may come a day when you will be forbidden from singing the name of Jesus;
  • ·        Reach out and tell what God has done for you because there is coming a day when you will be forbidden to evangelise or speak the name of Jesus.

Christian – I urge you to allow the times we live in to drive you into a deeper, more intimate dependence on God. Everything is being stripped away; all the distractions, the time-fillers, the excuses are being shut down so that God can prepare His people for the coming days. Let the challenges cause us to call out to the Lord for Him to develop in us the faith, the patience, and the endurance we will need to face what’s ahead. He knows what we need for now and for the future, and He is faithful to produce it in us if we yield to His shaping.

For now, we have technology; we have freedom to reach out and share our stories, our lives, the gospel, our faith in Jesus; we have a reach that we have never had before. Let’s not fall in the open ground, in the safe place we still have as Christians. Let’s use what time we have to be a blessing to our family, friends, and communities, and let God lead the way through the challenges.

There are many, many people who have no understanding of the times we live in, but as Christians, you and I know that God is moving, maybe one last time, before the end. Let’s not opt out because of the challenges we face. Let’s remember their purpose and stay as close to God as we can.

Jesus said in John16:33 “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

I believe God shows us these things to warn us and prepare us, and to let us know that in Him is the only true refuge; only in Him can we possibly hope to have peace. That kind of peace in the midst of trouble only comes to those who know the end of the story - Jesus has already won. He is victorious and we will be too, if we don’t fall away.

I join with Paul and Timothy when they wrote that they were ‘…confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.Php 1:6

God is faithful and whether it is against mere men or horses, on open ground or in thickets, He will give us everything we need.

 

 

Blessing ≠ Approval

 

Blessing Approval

Recently I have been reading about Jacob, the father of nations, who battled with God and saw great promises of God come to pass. He was a deceiver, a trickster, a man who didn’t always trust in God’s word, yet he was blessed. Why?

The blessing we see in the lives of men and women in the Bible is not about their worthiness. I often read it as though God approved of their behaviour and looks beyond their sin, as though they somehow deserve the blessing. But God blesses them despite their sin, their weakness, their fear and doubt…that is who God is.

The blessing of God does not imply any kind of perfection on the part of the one being blessed. Don’t read all the stories in the Bible as though God approves. God did not approve when Jacob deceived his brother, He did not approve when Joseph’s brothers sold him into slavery, or when Judah slept with Tamar without knowing who she was…yet God still blessed these people because of His own mercy and goodness. God has a plan and HE alone decides whom He will bless and favour in that plan. He knows who to preserve and protect in order that His plan proceeds according to His will.

Even for us. We need to be careful of how we think about this. When we are blessed by the Lord it is not because we deserve it or have blessing because God approves of everything we do. He does not approve of our sinful behaviour, ever…yet He chooses that we will be blessed despite our weakness and failure because of His plans for His kingdom in our lives. The greatest blessing of all, our salvation through Jesus’ death and resurrection, came while we were still sinners. We didn’t deserve any of it.  Romans 5:8 ‘But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners.

How wonderful is our God!

And I am thankful for that. Thankful that God does not treat us according to what we deserve, because if He did, who could stand? I am grateful for the mercy and grace of our Lord and the many, many blessings he has showered upon me regardless of my weakness, failure, and sin.

Our God is a good God. Full of mercy, grace and love.

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